Mind-Body Therapy for Chronic Pain, Illness, & Burnout—tailored to you
If you’re navigating pain, fatigue, or emotional exhaustion—and wondering whether therapy can actually help—you’re in the right place.
I offer integrative, online therapy for adults ready to approach healing differently.
Welcome.
This page is here to help you get a fuller sense of how I work, and whether therapy might feel like the right fit for what you’re carrying.
You’re not new to pain — but maybe you’re ready for a new kind of support.
Maybe this is you?
🌿 You’ve tried multiple providers, but feel like no one sees the full picture
🌿 You’re exhausted by the push-crash cycle, but unsure how to step off it
🌿 You’ve been told “it’s just stress” — but left without any real tools
🌿 You’re high-functioning on the outside, but stuck or shut down inside
🌿 You want help… but also want to be seen as capable and complex
This work is for people who’ve already tried “being strong.”
And who are finally looking for something more sustainable.
Your nervous system isn’t the enemy.
Pain and illness affect far more than just your physical body. Over time, they impact your thoughts, your emotions, your energy, and your sense of identity.
I work with clients who are navigating:
Chronic pain and post-surgical pain
Illness-related anxiety or burnout
Fibromyalgia, CRPS, or stress-amplified flares
Grief, disconnection, and fear of being “too much”
Nervous system dysregulation (freeze, shutdown, overdrive)
Healing doesn’t mean ignoring your pain. It means learning to understand it — and relate to it differently.
What Working Together Looks Like
I specialize in helping adults who are living with long-term health conditions, chronic pain, or complex emotional burnout.
We’ll go at the pace of safety, clarity, and trust.
This isn’t “just talking.” It’s nervous system-informed, mind-body therapy rooted in clinical psychology and tailored to your experience.
Our work together is:
Collaborative — We clarify your goals and revisit them together
Gentle — Especially when you’re in a flare, crash, or shutdown
Practical — No fluff. Just grounded tools that respect your energy
Personalized — Based on your symptoms, pattern, and pacing
Sessions might include:
🌿 Mind-body awareness and gentle somatic tracking
🌿 Nervous system education and pacing strategies
🌿 Thoughtful CBT/ACT-based work for emotional patterns
🌿 Space to talk about trauma, grief, or identity — without pressure to “move on”
Whether you're practical or holistic, skeptical or soul-searching — this work meets you where you are.
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Living with chronic pain or illness can make anxiety worse — and anxiety can make symptoms feel more intense. I work with clients who feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, fear-avoidance, or shutdown. If your mind tends to race ahead while your body lags behind, we’ll slow things down. Together we’ll explore what your nervous system is trying to protect and how you can respond with more clarity and calm.
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Pain is real — and so is the toll it takes on your mind, your energy, and your sense of self. I specialize in pain psychology, using mind-body therapy to help you understand how pain is processed in the brain, reduce fear and reactivity, and reconnect with a sense of agency and ease — even if you’ve been managing for years on your own.
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Whether it’s been a lifelong companion or showed up alongside illness, depression can flatten your world. You might feel stuck, shut down, or disconnected from meaning. Therapy can help you rebuild — not just your mood, but your motivation, your momentum, and a more self-compassionate way of relating to yourself.
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Grief doesn’t just follow a death — it can come with pain flares, diagnoses, identity shifts, or losing the version of life you worked hard for. If you're carrying a quiet ache for what used to be, therapy can be a place to honor that loss without needing to justify it — and without pressure to “move on.”
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Whether you're on long-term meds, exploring new options, or hoping to taper off safely, I offer collaborative support alongside your prescribers. We’ll make space for your questions and concerns, while helping you build strategies for feeling more grounded and in control of your care.
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Pain and sleep are deeply connected — and when one’s off, both tend to spiral. I use evidence-based methods (including CBT for insomnia) to support clients struggling with delayed sleep, early waking, pain-related fatigue, or racing thoughts that make it hard to rest. Sleep isn’t a luxury — it’s a foundation we can protect together.
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When your body won’t do what you want, it’s easy to turn the blame inward. Add in perfectionism, gaslighting, or years of pushing through — and your confidence might feel like a distant memory. I work with clients to rebuild self-trust and self-respect from the inside out, creating space for a gentler identity rooted in presence and pleasure, not performance.
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The body keeps the score — and chronic stress often shows up as pain, tension, brain fog, or burnout. I help clients map their stress response, regulate their nervous system, and soften the pressure to over-function. Together, we’ll untangle urgency, fear, and exhaustion so you can return to a steadier internal rhythm.
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Living with pain or illness can make it harder to connect — especially when you’re masking how bad things really feel. Whether you’re withdrawing to survive, tired of explaining yourself, or feeling unseen even around others, therapy can help you rebuild relational safety and rediscover how connection might feel good again.
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I don’t offer formal trauma protocols like EMDR, but my entire approach is trauma-informed. That means we move at your pace, avoid pathologizing language, and make room for the impact of past experiences — including medical trauma and invalidation. You don’t need to share your whole story to be met with care.
What I Help With
What Happens When You Reach Out
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Answer a few questions
Once you request a consultation, I’ll send you a short form online to complete ahead of time.
It’s designed to help you reflect on what’s been going on and what you’re hoping to shift — not a quiz, just a thoughtful starting point.
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Meet for a free consultation
This 15-minute video (or phone) call is where we’ll talk though what brought you here and whether working together feels like the right fit.
You’re welcome to ask questions about my approach, get clarity on next steps, or simply feel things out. No pressure, just a conversation.
P.S. Not sure how to pronounce my name? You’re not alone—here’s how to say it.
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Explore what comes next—together
If we both feel it’s a good match, we’ll talk about what ongoing support might look like—whether that’s weekly therapy, a one-time class, or something else entirely.
We’ll go at your pace, and you’ll have my support in making a choice that actually works for you.
Then you’ve probably noticed:
It’s not always easy to tell who might actually get it.
My hope is that this page gave you more than my credentials—that it gave you a sense of how therapy might feel.
Still feeling unsure? That makes total sense.
Maybe you’ve worked hard to manage on your own — and it’s taken a toll.
Maybe you’ve tried support before, but it felt too surface, too structured, or too disconnected.
Maybe you’re skeptical this will help… and still, something in you is quietly curious.
You don’t need to be certain.
Just open and willing. 🌿
If You’ve Been Reading Through Directories

Still Not Sure?
Choose Your Next Step
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Book a Free Consultation
No commitment. Just a conversation.
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Try a One-Time Class
Empowered Relief is a Stanford-developed 90-minute mind-body skills class for pain relief—no deep dives, no therapy commitment.
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Not Ready Yet?
Check out “Pain is More than Just Physical,” a blog post to help you understand the full picture of pain.

LIKE THE DESERT MOUNTAINS, HEALING DOESN’T HAVE TO RUSH.
You’re not too much. You’re not too late. And you’re not broken.
Whether we work together or not—I’m so glad you landed here.
DR. KALIANIVALA