What Is Chronic Pain and How Do You Manage It?
Living with pain doesn't mean you're making it up, exaggerating, or doing anything wrong. Chronic pain is real—and it's more than just a physical issue. Let's talk about what it actually is, where it shows up, and how you can get your life back.
Introduction: Chronic Pain Is More Than Just Ongoing Pain
Chronic pain is pain that lasts longer than 3 months. It can show up after an injury, alongside a health condition like arthritis or fibromyalgia, or seemingly out of nowhere. Unlike acute pain (think stubbed toe or pulled muscle), chronic pain doesn’t always go away with time. And it affects everything—your sleep, your mood, your energy, your relationships, and how you feel about yourself.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Over 50 million adults in the U.S. live with chronic pain, according to the CDC. So let’s explore what’s going on and what you can do about it.
How Chronic Pain Is Different from Acute Pain
Acute pain is your body’s alarm system. You get hurt, it signals danger, and (hopefully) it fades as you heal. Chronic pain is more like a fire alarm that won’t shut off—even when there’s no fire. It lingers past the normal healing window (usually 3-6 months) and sometimes doesn’t have a clear cause.
Chronic pain may:
Stay even after an injury has healed
Flare up without warning
Affect multiple areas of your life, not just your body
The difference matters because treatment for chronic pain isn’t just about fixing a body part. It’s about working with your nervous system, your routines, and your emotional health.
Chronic pain is like the smoke detector that goes off when your toast is extra crispy. Yes, something burned—but this time, smoke doesn’t mean fire.
Where Does Chronic Pain Come From?
Chronic pain can come from all sorts of places. Sometimes it starts with an injury or illness. Other times, it develops over time—maybe from inflammation, nerve damage, or a condition like fibromyalgia.
But here’s the twist: even after the original problem has healed, your nervous system might still keep sounding the pain alarm. This is called central sensitization. Essentially, your brain and spinal cord become more cautious—scanning for danger more often than before. In this heightened state, even harmless signals can trigger pain responses… even when there’s no injury present.
And the proof? Brain imaging studies have shown measurable changes in people living with chronic pain. Research highlights altered activity in areas like the amygdala (which helps process emotions) and the prefrontal cortex (which supports decision-making and focus), suggesting that chronic pain isn’t just a physical sensation—it’s a full-body, full-mind experience.
This 2011 review outlines how chronic pain alters brain function and emotional regulation, while Cleveland Clinic explains how chronic pain can affect the nervous system and mental health over time.
Where Chronic Pain Occurs in the Body—and How It Feels
Chronic pain doesn’t follow neat rules. It can show up anywhere in the body—or in multiple places at once. Sometimes it starts in a specific spot, like your lower back or knee. Other times, it feels widespread, moves around, or flares up unexpectedly.
According to the Cleveland Clinic and NHS Inform, chronic pain most commonly occurs in:
The lower back
The neck and shoulders
Major joints (knees, hips, wrists)
Nerve pathways (hands, feet, spine)
The head (migraines, cluster or tension headaches)
The gut (conditions like IBS or endometriosis)
Widespread muscles (as in fibromyalgia)
The pain itself can take many forms—aching, stabbing, burning, squeezing, or even buzzing. You might feel it constantly, or only during flare-ups. It may stay in one place or shift unpredictably.
And while chronic pain often shows up in the body, its impact goes beyond the physical. It can affect your mood, memory, relationships, and daily functioning. That’s why effective care needs to look at the whole picture—not just one symptom at a time.
Chronic Pain Syndrome: When It Becomes More Than Physical
When pain lasts for months and starts affecting your entire life—your sleep, energy, focus, and emotional well-being—it can develop into chronic pain syndrome (CPS).
People with CPS often experience:
Anxiety or depression
Poor sleep
Brain fog
Fatigue
Social withdrawal
Increased stress about the future
It’s not a character flaw. It’s not weakness. It’s a very human response to living in a body that’s been hurting for a long time.
Symptoms of Chronic Pain You Might Not Expect
Besides the pain itself, you might also notice:
Trouble concentrating or remembering things
Mood swings or irritability
Hypersensitivity to sound, light, or touch
Feeling overwhelmed or hopeless
Loss of interest in activities you used to enjoy
These symptoms are valid. They deserve attention too.
How Pain Works in the Body and Brain
Your brain and spine make up your central nervous system. Pain signals travel through this system, alerting your brain when something hurts. Normally, these signals quiet down once your body heals.
But in chronic pain, the system can stay "on high alert." The brain may keep interpreting signals as dangerous, even if there’s no injury. That’s why chronic pain can continue long after the original problem is gone.
Getting a Diagnosis: What to Expect
If you’ve been in pain for more than 12 weeks, talk to your provider. They might:
Ask about where the pain is and how it feels
Use a pain scale (1 to 10) to track severity
Order imaging tests like MRIs or X-rays
Check nerve function, reflexes, and mobility
REMEMBER: Chronic pain is personal. You are the expert on what you're feeling. Your words matter in helping providers understand what's going on.
What Are the Risk Factors for Chronic Pain?
Certain things can make chronic pain more likely:
Past injury or trauma
Chronic illness (like arthritis or diabetes)
Aging
High stress or trauma history
Smoking or poor sleep habits
Genetics (some conditions run in families)
Mental health conditions like depression, anxiety, and PTSD also raise the risk. After all, you are a whole person and all these functions share the same “real estate” in the brain. AKA—It’s all connected.
Treatment for Chronic Pain: Why One Size Doesn’t Fit All
There’s no single fix for chronic pain. But many people find relief by combining approaches.
Medical Treatments:
NSAIDs or nerve pain medications
Muscle relaxers
Injections or TENS (electrical stimulation)
Surgery (sometimes)
Physical and Occupational Therapy:
Movement routines
Strength-building and flexibility
Tools for daily function
Mental Health Support:
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)
Clinical hypnosis, biofeedback, and stress reduction
Alternative Therapies:
Acupuncture
Heat/cold therapy
Mindfulness and meditation
Living with Chronic Pain: Self-Management and Support
Let’s be honest: living with pain is hard. But there are ways to support your nervous system, build resilience, and stay connected to what matters.
Tips for daily life:
Pace your activities (stop before you crash)
Use tools or supports (braces, pillows, apps)
Move your body gently and regularly
Set small, doable goals
Get curious (not judgmental) about your limits
Plus, working with the right team—including a therapist, doctor, or PT—can make a huge difference.
When to Reach Out for Help
You don’t need to wait for a crisis to ask for support. But if any of the following are true, it’s probably time to check in with a provider:
Your pain is getting worse and not backing down—or it’s spreading
It’s interfering with your daily life, sleep, or ability to focus
You’re feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or emotionally worn down
You’ve tried to manage it on your own but feel stuck or unsure what to do next
You deserve care that takes your experience seriously. And you don’t have to figure this out alone.
Support is out there.
And if you’ve been having trouble finding support that actually helps—I'm here when you’re ready.
At Alcove Mental Health, I specialize in therapy for chronic pain, fatigue, and burnout. Whether you're looking for practical tools, a space to reset, or a new way forward, we can figure out what fits you best—together.
Ready to explore? Apply to work together.
Not Sure What You Need Yet?
No problem. Chronic pain is not a simple journey and neither is determine the next step—as much as we might like it to be easier! As you explore and tune in to what fits best for you, I hope you find some helpful information here. A few places you might like to explore:
Learn more about chronic pain therapy
Read more about a mind-body approach to therapy in the alcove(our blog)
Even if you’re unsure, you’re allowed to want something different.
Whether you’re burned out from trying “everything” or just starting to explore what’s possible — I’m glad you landed here.
FAQs about Chronic Pain
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Definitely. In fact, several research studies have been conducted that show how physical experience experiences and imaging don’t always line up. This is a pretty common experience among the people I work with, too.
Imaging and other tests can be useful for identifying certain conditions, but they don’t measure the full experience of pain or how sensitized the nervous system can become. All to say, persistent pain is real even when testing doesn’t offer evidence or a structural explanation.
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Pain can change from day to day for a few different reasons. Many chronic pain conditions naturally wax and wane: the nervous system may be relatively quiet at times and more sensitized or “flared” at others and this can influence our sensory experience of pain. Other factors like activity, sleep, illness, stress, and other changes in the body or environment also influence how strongly pain is experienced.
With neuroplastic or nociplastic pain, symptoms may also shift locations, spread, or even move from one side of the body to the other. The brain maintains a changeable map of the body, and pain is influenced by how the nervous system interprets and responds to signals—not only by what is happening in the tissues.
These patterns do not prove that pain is neuroplastic; new or concerning symptoms should still be medically evaluated. But day-to-day variability or a temporary flare does not necessarily mean that new damage has occurred—or that previous progress has been lost.
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A pain psychologist or chronic pain therapist with specialized training in pain psychology can be a good fit for chronic pain. Look for a licensed mental health professional who understands chronic pain, pain neuroscience, and the mind-body connection, including how physical symptoms, nervous system sensitivity, emotions, behaviors, stress, and daily functioning can interact.
Depending on your needs, it may also be helpful to look for someone familiar with neuroplastic or nociplastic pain and evidence-based approaches designed specifically for chronic pain. Some examples include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for chronic pain, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), pain reprocessing therapy (PRT), mindfulness and self compassion, emotional awareness and expression on therapy (EAET).
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About the author
Dr. Anahita Kalianivala, PhD, is a Nevada-licensed psychologist with advanced training in chronic pain care. She specializes in chronic pain therapy and uses evidence-based, integrative approaches focused on nervous system regulation, neuroscience, and pattern recognition to help clients rebuild trust in their bodies, find greater emotional ease, and create a more livable relationship with chronic pain. At Alcove Mental Health, she is committed to providing compassionate, expert online care for clients in Nevada and participating PSYPACT states.
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Last updated on September 5, 2026