Integrative, Mind-Body Therapy for Balance, Relief and Resilience

I offer integrative, mind-body therapy for burnout, chronic pain, and emotional strain—bringing together evidence-based care, somatic approaches, and intuitive insight to help you find balance, relief, and resilience.

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I’m so glad you landed here.

If you're feeling worn down by ongoing fatigue, emotional exhaustion, or chronic discomfort—and the usual strategies haven’t brought relief—you’re not alone. I offer integrative therapy that honors both science and soul, helping you reconnect with your inner wisdom and your capacity to heal.

Services are available in over 40 states.


Evidence-based therapy doesn’t have to feel like a checklist.

This is for people who’ve already tried what’s supposed to work—and are ready for something more aligned.

Your nervous system isn’t the enemy.

Chronic pain, illness, and long-term stress don’t just affect your body—they shape your thoughts, emotions, energy, and sense of who you are.

I work with clients who are navigating:

  • Holding steady through long-term stress, fatigue, or pain—while quietly wondering if things could ever feel easier

  • Tired of navigating complex health challenges alone, and ready for care that feels more connected

  • Noticing cycles of nervous system overwhelm—freeze, shutdown, or overdrive—and wanting tools to shift the pattern

  • Carrying grief, disconnection, or the fear of being “too much,” and longing for a space where they don’t have to shrink

  • Seeking a deeper (re)connection with their body, intuition, and sense of self

  • Ready to move beyond coping—to find relief that’s rooted in alignment, not just endurance

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This work is about tending the cracks, strengthening the inner wisdom, and emerging more fully yourself.

Why I Do This Work

Before founding Alcove Mental Health, I trained and worked in a range of academic medical centers and hospital systems. My experiences in health psychology include supporting individuals navigating medical weight loss and bariatric surgery, where I provided coaching and psychotherapy around the emotional, behavioral, and physical aspects of change. I also completed a health-focused pre-doctoral internship at the Memphis VA Medical Center, a major regional hospital where I served patients across primary care, inpatient geriatric rehabilitation, and sleep medicine. Afterward, I completed a post-doctoral fellowship at Stanford’s Pain Medicine Clinic, where I deepened my focus on chronic pain and complex medical concerns within an interdisciplinary team.

Over the years, I’ve come to understand how chronic stress, health challenges, and burnout affect more than just the body. They reshape identity, wear down resilience, and often go unseen by others. That’s why my practice blends clinical psychology, nervous system science, and integrative approaches—to help you feel steadier, clearer, and more connected to your life.

I want your therapy to feel expert, intuitive, and deeply respectful of your story—while helping you move toward relief, clarity, and a renewed sense of possibility.

Learn more about the therapies used in our work.

Get to know Dr. Kalianivala.

Explore the values that guide this work.

Clinical health psychologist specializing in chronic pain and burnout, holding Anatomy of the Spirit and reflecting on integrative therapy approaches.

What Working Together Looks Like

I specialize in helping adults who are living with long-term health conditions, chronic pain, or complex emotional burnout.

We’ll go at your pace—one that supports clarity, safety, & trust.

This isn’t “just talking.” It’s nervous system-informed, mind-body therapy rooted in clinical psychology and tailored to your experience.

Our work together is:

  • Collaborative — We clarify your goals and revisit them together

  • Gentle — Especially when you’re in a flare, crash, or shutdown

  • Practical — No fluff. Just grounded tools that respect your energy

  • Personalized — Based on your symptoms, pattern, and pacing

  • Integrative — Blending science, somatics, and intuition to support your healing

Sessions might include:

🌿 Mind-body awareness and gentle somatic tracking
🌿 Nervous system education and pacing strategies
🌿 Thoughtful CBT/ACT-based work for emotional patterns
🌿 Intuitive insights woven into clinical work
🌿 Space to talk about trauma, grief, or identity, without the pressure to “move on”

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Whether you lead with logic, intuition—or a little of both—this work meets you where you are.

  • Living with chronic pain or illness can make anxiety worse — and anxiety can make symptoms feel more intense. I work with clients who feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, fear-avoidance, or shutdown. Together we’ll look at what your nervous system is trying to protect, and how we can respond with more clarity and calm.

  • Pain is real — and so is the toll it takes on your mind, your energy, and your sense of self. I specialize in pain psychology, using mind-body therapy to help you understand how pain is processed in the brain, reduce fear and reactivity, and reconnect with a sense of agency and ease.

  • Whether it’s been a lifelong companion or showed up alongside illness, depression can flatten your world. You might feel stuck, shut down, or disconnected from your sense of meaning. Therapy can help you rebuild — not just your mood, but your momentum, your motivation, and your relationship with yourself.

  • Grief doesn’t just follow a death — it can come with pain flares, diagnoses, identity changes, and all the small losses along the way. If you’re navigating complex grief or the quiet ache of what you’ve had to let go of, therapy can be a space to honor it, gently and without pressure to “move on.”

  • Whether you're on long-term meds, exploring options, or hoping to taper off safely, I offer collaborative support alongside your prescribers. We can work together to address anxiety about medications, build adherence strategies, and develop coping tools so you feel more in control of your care.

  • Pain and sleep are deeply connected — and when one’s off, both tend to spiral. I use evidence-based methods (including CBT for insomnia) to support clients struggling with delayed sleep, early waking, pain-related fatigue, or racing thoughts that keep you up. Sleep is a biological need, not a luxury — and it’s worth protecting.

  • When your body won’t do what you want, it’s easy to turn the blame inward. Add in years of pain, gaslighting, or perfectionism… and your confidence might feel long gone. I work with clients to gently rebuild self-trust, self-respect, and a new kind of identity — not based on productivity, but on presence.

  • The body keeps the score — and chronic stress often shows up as pain, tension, brain fog, or burnout. I help clients map their stress response, regulate their nervous system, and shift unhelpful patterns. Together, we’ll untangle urgency, fear, and exhaustion so you can return to a steadier internal state.

  • Living with pain or illness can make it harder to connect — and harder to feel understood when you do. Whether you’re withdrawing to survive, tired of explaining yourself, or feeling alone even in a crowded room, therapy can help you rebuild relational safety and find ways to feel connected again.

  • I don’t provide trauma protocols like EMDR, but my entire approach is trauma-informed. That means honoring your pace, avoiding pathologizing language, and recognizing that past experiences — including medical trauma — can shape how you move through the world. You don’t have to share your whole story to be held with care.

What I Help With

What Happens When You Reach Out

1

Answer a few questions

Once you request a consultation, I’ll send you a short form online to complete ahead of time.

It’s designed to help you reflect on what’s been going on and what you’re hoping to shift — not a quiz, just a thoughtful starting point.

2

Meet for a free consultation

This 15-minute video call is where we’ll talk though what brought you here and whether working together feels like the right fit.

You’re welcome to ask questions about my approach, get clarity on next steps, or simply feel things out. No pressure, just a conversation.

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3

Explore what comes next—together

If we both feel like it’s a good match, we’ll talk about what ongoing support can look like—whether that’s weekly therapy, a one-time class, or something else entirely.

We’ll go at your pace, and you’ll have my support in making a choice that actually works for you.

You’re allowed to trust what feels aligned

Everyone moves at their own pace.
What feels true for you right now?

I’m think I’m ready to explore therapy.

Let’s start with a free 15-minute consultation—a space to connect, ask questions, and see if this work feels like a fit.

I’m interested, but I want to learn more first.

Take a moment to explore a curated list of blog posts that offer a deeper look into this approach—what it is, how it works, and why it might resonate.

I’m still feeling things out.

The Alcove Mental Health homepage is a good place to browse freely and get a broader feel for the practice.

Whether we work together or not—I’m so glad you landed here.

DR. KALIANIVALA